“Don’t look away. Look straight at everything. Look it all in the eye, good and bad.”
— Henry Miller
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wow!
disabled women of color are capable and deserve to be recognized and respected
After I get waxed I wanna show yall my pussy so bad
ah yes, my favourite foreign language feel, “I know what all of those words mean individually but not together like that”
not to forget its twin “i know (roughly) what you’re saying, but what are those words?”
Plus the secret triplet “I managed to get your drift but I don’t know how to answer you”.
Red Flags
If they pressure you to quit your job or drop out of school, run for your life.
If they start talking about marriage and kids within the first 3 months of dating, RUN.
If they start telling you what to wear or give you a dress code, run far away.
If they dictate who you’re allowed to spend time with, you guessed it, run from them.
If you have to ask their permission before going out, run and never look back.
And yes, these are based on real-life examples of psychological abuse. Let’s continue.
If they tell you you’re grounded… you’ve got a first class abuser on your hands.
If they show up at your house in the middle of the night because you didn’t answer the phone, that’s stalking and harassment.
If they set rules about what you’re allowed to eat, they’re a super mega abusive asshole.
If they tell you all about how much they want to kill you during arguments, don’t gamble with your life and assume they’re bluffing.
If they get jealous of every other person you speak to, they’re a liability.
And they’ll probably disguise it all by saying they know what’s best for you. That you’re not smart enough to make decisions by yourself, that they’re only doing this because they care. They’ll probably even tell you that it’s all your fault and that you make them act crazy.
DO. NOT. BELIEVE. THEM.
If you feel anxious and depressed all the time since this person came into your life then you already know they’re toxic.
And no, they won’t change.
And yes, it’s going to keep getting worse.
They won’t change.
Things won’t get better.
They will drain the life out of you.
It will get to a point where you won’t even recognize who you are anymore because they’ve made you change so much about yourself.
Rebuilding yourself after someone destroys you is SO much work.
Don’t risk it. LEAVE!
I LOVE THAT THEY KEEP PICKING UP MORE OMG
Man, The Spiderverse movie looks rough as hell.
can you imagine being at this con dressed as spiderman and this caravan passes by and you’re like “…I gotta go” and leave your friends in the dust
FRIENDLY REMINDER THAT UHURA IS A GODDAMN ENGINEER, WHICH IS WHY SHE WEARS RED. SHE IS THE COMMS OFFICER BECAUSE SHE KNOWS HOW TO WORK THE EQUIVALENT OF THE SHIP’S HAM RADIO—THAT’S TECHNICAL WORK. SHE IS NOT KIRK’S SPACE SECRETARY.
And she speaks a bunch of languages and she’s so smart that when she lost her memory of everything, she learned it all again really quickly (with nurse chapel which was so cute)
Honey got skills and she’s a genius
And she knows how to play the Vulcan lyre too!
